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Posts Tagged ‘family politics’

Etiquette: How to Divide the Guest List When Parents Are Divorced

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Last week, I fielded a query from parents of the bride who are footing the bill for a 250-person wedding. The groom’s parents are divorced and both have remarried, …

Etiquette: Be Discreet When Gathering Addresses

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

As you round up addresses (and spellings of names) for your guest list, you’re going to want to find out: Are the single cousins dating anybody? What about …

The Royal Wedding: Fanfare for Grandmother

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Talk about an entrance! Her Royal Highness, Elizabeth, has entered the abbey, and the bells aren’t enough–there’s a trumpet fanfare.
Most brides and grooms don’t have royalty for grandparents, …

Etiquette: Does a "No" RSVP Hurt?

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

I spoke with a bride today who was surprised by her reaction to “will not attend” response cards. She had expected to feel disappointed when people weren’t able …

Etiquette: When a Bride Has Two Mothers

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

“How can I involve both my mom and stepmom in my wedding?”
That’s the question at least one of our readers is pondering — her mother wrote to me …

Etiquette: Guest List for the Royal Wedding

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Setting the guest list is the trickiest part of any wedding planning. Can you imagine doing this for the wedding of the heir to the English throne? The …

Etiquette: Fishing for an Invite

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

I had to bite my tongue last week to keep from being rude. Why?
A friend and colleague told me that she and her sweetheart have decided to marry. …

Etiquette: An Argument for a Family Table

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Traditional seating charts place the couple at one table and their attendants and parents at another. This lets mom and dad serve directly as hosts to particularly close …