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Etiquette: When You Get Duplicate Gifts at the Shower

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Normally, if you get two of the same gift, you thank each person, then stealthily return one of them and never mention the duplication. If they know about …

Etiquette: Should He Ask Your Dad for Your Hand?

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One of the oldest traditions of the proposal is for the groom to ask the bride’s father for his daughter’s hand in marriage. Historically, a suitor would often …

Etiquette: Can You Host Your Own Engagement Party?

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Long ago, the engagement party was hosted by the bride’s parents in order to reveal the upcoming nuptials to family and friends – at the party. Up until a …

Etiquette: When to Use "Retired" Titles on the Invite

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I was asked a fun question via our AskMartha mailbox last week. The father of the bride has three titles, all of from which he has retired. In …

Etiquette/Poll: Replace a Maid of Honor or Best Man?

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So your best friend from college got a new job and won’t be eligible for vacation. She (he?) won’t be able to be there — do you get …

Etiquette: Who Gets a Corsage or Boutonniere?

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This week, Nikki wrote to us at our AskMartha mailbox (askMartha@marthastewartweddings.com) with this question: Who gets a corsage or boutonniere at my wedding? Money is tight, but she …

Etiquette: When Gifts Arrive Early

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When a wedding gift arrives before the wedding date, the Etiquette Squad often gets asked, “Do I open the gift? And should I send the thank-you note now, …

Etiquette: Be Discreet When Gathering Addresses

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As you round up addresses (and spellings of names) for your guest list, you’re going to want to find out: Are the single cousins dating anybody? What about …