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Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Name: Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Title: Managing Editor
Hometown: Mount Ayr, Iowa
Favorite romantic destination: England’s Lake District
Best planning tip: Pick three things you really, really care about (flowers, food, and photography, for example), and focus your attention on having them go exactly how you want. Let everything else fall into place.

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Etiquette/Love It! Emily Post's Been Updated!

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

The 18th edition of the world’s most classic etiquette reference book, Emily Post’s Etiquette, was just introduced by the Emily Post Institute (I call them when I’m stumped). …

Etiquette: Should You Include Gluten-Free Choices in Your Menu?

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Every other day, it seems, I discover that yet another friend/relative/coworker has been diagnosed with celiac or a gluten intolerance. And while “gluten free!” pops up on label …

Etiquette: When You Get Duplicate Gifts at the Shower

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Normally, if you get two of the same gift, you thank each person, then stealthily return one of them and never mention the duplication. If they know about …

Etiquette: Should He Ask Your Dad for Your Hand?

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

One of the oldest traditions of the proposal is for the groom to ask the bride’s father for his daughter’s hand in marriage. Historically, a suitor would often …

Love It! Hipzbag Hands-Free Purse

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Ever since my purse got ripped off (years ago, now!), I’ve kept my handbag tiny, slipping in only the most valuable and necessary things, in order to keep …

Etiquette: Can You Host Your Own Engagement Party?

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

Long ago, the engagement party was hosted by the bride’s parents in order to reveal the upcoming nuptials to family and friends – at the party. Up until a …

Etiquette: When to Use "Retired" Titles on the Invite

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

I was asked a fun question via our AskMartha mailbox last week.
The father of the bride has three titles, all of from which he has retired. In order …

Etiquette/Poll: Replace a Maid of Honor or Best Man?

Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld

So your best friend from college got a new job and won’t be eligible for vacation. She (he?) won’t be able to be there — do you get …