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Name: Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Title: Managing Editor
Hometown: Mount Ayr, Iowa
Favorite romantic destination: England’s Lake District
Best planning tip: Pick three things you really, really care about (flowers, food, and photography, for example), and focus your attention on having them go exactly how you want. Let everything else fall into place.
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Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Some of the questions we field via our AskMartha e-mail box (askMartha@marthastewartweddings.com) aren’t from brides or grooms — they’re from guests. Today’s question was about whether to bring …
Tags: engagement party, engagement party gifts, Gifts, Registry
Posted on October 11th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice, Registry | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
When you ask someone to be your bridesmaid, you’re giving her a great compliment: She’s in your closest circle, one of the people you most want by your …
Tags: attendants, bridesmaid, groomsman
Posted on October 4th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Wedding advice often suggests that the bride and groom distribute their gifts to the bridal party at the rehearsal dinner. But one of our readers wrote in a …
Tags: attendants, bridesmaid gifts, bridesmaid's gifts, groomsmen gifts, rehearsal dinner
Posted on September 27th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Last week, I fielded a query from parents of the bride who are footing the bill for a 250-person wedding. The groom’s parents are divorced and both have remarried, …
Tags: dividing the guest list, family, family dynamics, family politics, guest list, parents, stepparents
Posted on September 20th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Recently a friend complained about the seating arrangements at her cousin’s wedding. She’d attended with her parents, her brother, and her sister, but they’d been seated at different …
Tags: reception, seating, seating chart
Posted on September 13th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
I heard a story last week about a couple with: two engagement parties, three showers, three golf get-togethers, a “dress reveal,” a bridesmaid luncheon, bachelor and bachelorette parties, …
Tags: attendants, bridal shower, Bridesmaids, engagement party, groomsmen, ushers
Posted on September 6th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
Don’t feel bad about checking and updating your wedding registry online — there are practical reasons to do so. For starters, sometimes it’s the only way to find …
Posted on August 30th, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice, Registry | direct link to this entry |
Posted by Talley Sue Hohlfeld
In our AskMartha mailbox, askMartha@marthastewartweddings.com, I fielded this question recently: We are having a black-tie wedding, and we’re setting the tone with our save-the-dates and invitations. I know …
Tags: addressing envelopes, addressing invitations, addressing the envelope, courtesy titles, formality, Mr. and Mrs., social titles, terms of address
Posted on August 23rd, 2011 in Etiquette & Advice | direct link to this entry |